Stay Positive Against All Odds!
It is easy to be discouraged to the point of giving up when you had tried so hard and the result is not what you desire. These are the times when you feel low or depressed...
Constantly remind yourself to stay positive, to overcome all odds. It can be done if you believe you can!
Self Talk
It is important that you clear all negative thoughts from your mind. Think and visualise the results that you want (barring illegal thoughts of course!) and tell yourself that you can do it. Build up your self confidence and self esteem with the belief that you will achieve.
Blessing in Disguise
Most outcome has pros & cons when viewed objectively at different angles. The outcome may not be what you had wished for but it may not be that bad. Be open to new ideas and consider how you can use the outcome - can it lead you to another opportunity which you had not explored? For example, there are people who find their dream job (by exploring other opportunties) after being retrenched. Remember, each time you ride through an obstacle, you will be stronger!
Fend Off Negative Pressure
You may meet people who are out there to pull you down with nasty remarks about you while others may be offering good advise which applies to them but not necessary applicable to you. In short, it is good to seek advise (seek professional advise as well when necessary) but the ultimate decision is yours. You can learn from the experience of others but do take note the circumstances may be different from you. You decide what you want, how you want to lead your life and take responsibility for it.
Silver Lining
There is always a silver lining behind each cloud. If you feel overwhelmed with problems, list down all the problems and prioritise them. Identify whether the problems are related and find the root problem. Be brave to face and solve the root problem, don't allow it to haunt you again.
Law of Attraction
It may sound unbelievable - you attracts what you think! An example - you attract the kind of people that you like to mix with thus you will find it easier to build rapport with people that you attracted.
If you think of failure before you start, you will fail immediately. Give priority to what is important to you, think how you can achieve it and take actions.
Be Motivated - when there is a will, there is a way!
Cheers!
Self Help-Site
http://selfhelp-site.blogspot.com/
Constantly remind yourself to stay positive, to overcome all odds. It can be done if you believe you can!
Self Talk
It is important that you clear all negative thoughts from your mind. Think and visualise the results that you want (barring illegal thoughts of course!) and tell yourself that you can do it. Build up your self confidence and self esteem with the belief that you will achieve.
Blessing in Disguise
Most outcome has pros & cons when viewed objectively at different angles. The outcome may not be what you had wished for but it may not be that bad. Be open to new ideas and consider how you can use the outcome - can it lead you to another opportunity which you had not explored? For example, there are people who find their dream job (by exploring other opportunties) after being retrenched. Remember, each time you ride through an obstacle, you will be stronger!
Fend Off Negative Pressure
You may meet people who are out there to pull you down with nasty remarks about you while others may be offering good advise which applies to them but not necessary applicable to you. In short, it is good to seek advise (seek professional advise as well when necessary) but the ultimate decision is yours. You can learn from the experience of others but do take note the circumstances may be different from you. You decide what you want, how you want to lead your life and take responsibility for it.
Silver Lining
There is always a silver lining behind each cloud. If you feel overwhelmed with problems, list down all the problems and prioritise them. Identify whether the problems are related and find the root problem. Be brave to face and solve the root problem, don't allow it to haunt you again.
Law of Attraction
It may sound unbelievable - you attracts what you think! An example - you attract the kind of people that you like to mix with thus you will find it easier to build rapport with people that you attracted.
If you think of failure before you start, you will fail immediately. Give priority to what is important to you, think how you can achieve it and take actions.
Be Motivated - when there is a will, there is a way!
Cheers!
Self Help-Site
http://selfhelp-site.blogspot.com/