Build Your Self Confidence

Have you ever wonder why some people are smooth sailing in almost everything they do? Are they born with lucky stars? Perhaps some are luckier than others but the X-factor is usually Self Confidence.


How to build Self Confidence?


1. Like Yourself
To start with, you need to like yourself so that you can project self confidence from within.

Never mind if you do not have the height or perfect body size, learn to accept yourself and "Stand Tall, Walk Tall". It helps that you make some effort to keep yourself healthy, neat and dress appropriate. You do not need to spend a fortune on branded goods, the bottom line is to make yourself feel good within your financial means.

Identify your own weakness and work on improving yourself through personal development courses and self help articles.

2. Can Do Mentality
Tell yourself you can do it! Take the first step with the view that you will get what you want to achieve. When the road is bumpy, take it as a learning journey - resolve the problems by breaking down into smaller steps and take the multiple small steps.

 Believe in yourself!  Practise affirmations to boost up your confidence level.

3. Attract the Positives
While it is good to listen to the advise of others, beware of people who are pulling you down (for whatever reason).

Read about inspiring life stories, learn from other people's mistakes and stay positive. Clear out the negative thoughts and move forward...

4. Build Knowledge
Spend time to research and gain more knowledge. If your job is very specialised, learn the technical know-how and be a expert.

5. Laugh It Out
Sometimes, no matter how prepared you are, things still go wrong and your self confidence get shaken. Do not blame yourself, take a deep breath (or laugh it out), accept what you cannot change and start to build your self confidence again!


6. Self Talk
Encourage yourself, give yourself a pat when you have progress.  Boost Your Self Confidence


Cheers!
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